behaviour problems

i feel so down its untrue my 4yr old child has behaviour problems we are waiting too see a specialist shes bein watched at school too pick things up shes getting out of controll i feel like a total failiure because i cant control her seems too be getting worse i want too scream

dsj2bw wrote:i feel so down its untrue my 4yr old child has behaviour problems we are waiting too see a specialist shes bein watched at school too pick things up shes getting out of controll i feel like a total failiure because i cant control her seems too be getting worse i want too scream

Aw dont you feel like a failure, these things happen, see what the specialist says and hopefully it will all get sorted soon xx

i know hun just seems nothing is getting done wish i had the money too go private x

Oh God I know that feeling. For ages I was telling the health visitors there was something different about my David, but all they ever said was "children all develop at different speeds". I eventually put my foot down and insisted on a refferal to a speech therapist, because at 2 years old, he wasn't even babbling, never mind speaking. After waiting 3 months to see the speech therapist, she agreed with me he had autistic tendancies, and reffered him to a child development peadiatrician. 4 months we waited for that appointment, just to be told what I already knew, he was autistic. i shouldn't have had to wait that long to get him a diagnosis, and the linking support that he needed. The NHS waiting times are rediculous. But hang in there hun, it will get better soon. Please don't blame yourself for what's happening, these things just sometimes happen. x

they said she hasnt got adhd shes just a really busy child when they are on the carpet singing and reading shes wondering doing her own thing mmmm well bloody tell her sit here with the rest of the class simple init my health visitor is crap total crap got pnd had it after the middle child and again now no support what so ever x