what to do with my hair!!!

Hello

I'm kind of getting to the point where i need to think about what i would like my hair to be like on the day, but i am completely clueless in that department as i always have it straight!

I know that i don't want to have anything too styled as i have had party hair do's in the past and hated them.

I was thinking something like this
http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/cm/goodhousekeeping/images/jennifer-aniston-natural-hg-de.jpg

with this hair band
http://www.blossom.co.uk/page/shop/flypage/product_id/1269/category_id/b8d604be03efb0aff3e1e1c83f218136

with my dress
http://www.victoriabrookes.co.uk/Images/CB_Lrg_Pixie.jpg

do you think

1. it will last all day!
2. a bit like it haven't made an effort.

if only i could wear my t-shirt, jeans and converse on the day!

What about something more up, like

I think that combination would look beautiful. Your dress is very pretty and feminine so I think the curls look with the headband would look ace.

I'm going for a similar look with my hair as I never wear it up and I'm planning on cheating a little with a few curly hair extensions in just to keep the shape for the whole day!

Zepsgal - this was one of my favourites until the weekend when h2b told me to avoid curls as they looked awful on me - i don't think he realises how curly my hair was as a kid.

mrsdeano2be - i had never thought of extensions, will have a look into now..

lol, that was erm, nice of him!

I love your choices - definitely with you on the 'party hairstyles' - do matter how good they look on other people, having anything structured makes me feel like a fraud! (if you see what I mean)

I'm going to have something similar I think, although no waves at all - I love my hair really straight and shiny (mainly cos it can't hold any curl!)

xx