Shocked and feeling like a mug

Been having issues with one of my BM for a while. She's always been a bit 2 faced and drops friends when with boyfriends etc. But we've stuck there as shes our friend.

When she split up with last guy she was homeless so she came to live with me rent free for a month (over christmas). She then moved in with another mate on a cheap rent system so he could help her out (he didn't really need the cash) for a few months.

She then got back with her ex and went off again but this time got bitchy.

She then moved back in with the boyfriend and not spoken to us much since.

TONIGHT she got in touch with one of my friends and started having a full on bitching session. My friend is good and got me online and showed me the entire convo. Im sat here in shock. Shes been horrid. Says we (me and the other friend she lived with) have ruined her life, made up a huge amount of lies to make us sound terrible. Shes accused him (mate she lived with) of perving on her when she was in the shower, going through her underwear and all other horrible things. She said it was like living with a sexual predator. Apparently Ive done nothing but harass her for months about nothing in particular and at times have made her break down??

I'm in shock, she's been horrible and all I've done is try and help her

Cut her out of your life and think nothing more of her.

Hope your OK. xx

Oh sweetie, thats horrible!

She sounds like a very selfish person, showing no gratitude for the help you gave her. I know its hard, but be glad you have now seen her true colours, and you can cut her out of your life knowing that you didnt do anything wrong

x x x

Oh no, poor you.

If i was you, I would cut and paste the conversation and stick it in an email to her saying that in light of all the 'terrible treatment' you have given her, you want nothing to do with her, and definately dont want her as a BM. I am sure she will probably turn around and say she was angry/ drunk when she wrote those things, but they say the truth comes out when your drunk!!

You're better off without someone who is such a 2 faced mare - she will only cause you more stress and pain so kick her ass out of your life. You really dont need anyone adding to the stress of organising a wedding!

Hope you feel better soon, sending you hugs...
xx

Thanks guys. I always knew she could be like this, I guess it's just the shock of hearing it. I'm more annoyed about what she said about our other mate, she's giving him a horrible reputation!!

I don't want her near the wedding, but it's just the hurt of being told she's never liked any of us and she's been using us to get free accomodation!

Its a horrible feeling knowing that you have been used isnt it?

Well, its one less person you have to worry about, but it just means you might end up being a little more wary of anyone else asking for a favour. Still, she will be the loser in the long run, when she has no friends and noone to turn to.
Karma will come and bite her on the ass!!

xx

that's horrible, hope you're okay, what goes around comes around and I'm sure it will come back to bite her on the bum one day

Oh hun, hope you and your other friend are ok...

Don't think about her any more, cut her out of your life, you don't need her.

Stupid bint doesn't realise what she had x